Love, Desire and Independence If you are in your 20’s like me chances are you’re trying to find your way in the world of dating, engagement and relationships in general. The conservative Christian community has published countless books on the subject and the Internet is flooded with guides, lectures, sermon series, blogs, etc… Much of the discussion is directed around the term “dating”, it goes without saying that this is a vague, subjective and culturally specific term that ranges in a meaning so broad that many Christian’s when asked the question, “So are you dating?”, respond with a pensive “well...were definitely not courting, but were more than friends, if that is what you mean.” While this may not describe you or your friends, it does apply to many Christian’s with whom I am acquainted and this article nonetheless skirts that complex issue all together, don’t worry, this is not a commentary on dating. So whether your'e single, dating, courting, engaged or “umm…we don’t ...